Indifferent Submission

His booming jolly voice on the phone, puffed up like a balloon, needing puncturing.

Young lady, he says, rate your value of a Dominant who
...controls you.
...makes you orgasm.
...makes you poly.
...objectifies you.
...requires your service.

He is palpably baffled when I answer with indifference to most of the descriptions.

I can't say, it's not my place, that all of those things make it about me, and that anyone who doesn't sense what does not leave me indifferent will never be able to leave me anything more than that.

I am a submissive. I am not a submissive.
You are dominant. You are not dominant.
You are not dominant. You are a daddy.
You are dominant. You are a teacher.

There is logic in that.